Anonymous asked: Just curious but don't you find the amount of porn you write and read is unfemine? I get it, okay, you're progressive but it's kinda of abnormal for a grown woman to be as into kinks as you are. I like you and I like you're writing, I just think that you being a girl makes it a little weird.
There are literally so many things wrong with this I don’t know where to start. First and foremost, being a woman shouldn’t mean I can’t enjoy something or that it’s weird if I like sex. Why should it matter if I do? Oh, wait, yeah: years of ingrained social misogyny have made having a vagina equate to not having personal thoughts, wants or feelings relating to sex or sexuality.
I hate to say it, but, just ‘cause my owner’s manual has about six thousand more buttons, it doesn’t mean I don’t know how to set the VCR if you catch my drift. I’m not going to be sorry or made to feel “unfeminine” because it’s not the social norm. News flash: IT SHOULD BE. Women like sex, women like fucking, woman like nasty-assed language and if that intimidates you, we’ve got more problems than my social delicacy.
Frankly, I don’t answer to you. I don’t care if guys are turned off by my porn habits. I don’t give a rat’s royal ass if I’m completely not your type. Why? Because when I wake up in the morning the first thing on my mind isn’t how to please people, it’s taking a piss and having some juice and dunno, maybe a shower if I’m feeling productive. My life does not revolve around my value to other people, especially not to people who interpret me through a filter of culturized dehumanization.
Yeah, I’m a woman. Yeah, I write porn. Yeah, I’m gonna finish my glass of wine and go eat some fucking ass because I work a nine-to-five and I fucking earned it. But, guess what? Not going to lose a second of sleep over your eww face because this isn’t the 1950s and you’re a big boy, make your own fucking sandwich.